28 October 2011

WHY IS DO I HAVE VIOLENT EVENTS IN MY LIFE?

People wonder why their houses are burglared;  why they are hijacked;  how they get into all sorts of violent events... They wonder why God is not protecting them, as he should, and think of the world as an evil place, filled with crime, and bad people.  They curse God, when all the time they are the only one's to blame.

People say that want to live a peaceful existence, but their actions are not peaceful.



Why are they to blame

Nine out of ten people watch movies... not comedies....action movies, full of all sorts of violence and horror.  They give attention to it.  They enjoy it.   They say:  "That is a great movie!"  They talk about it to friends.  The Law of Attraction says:  "You liked that, let me give you more of that..."  So you attract violent circumstances into your life.   Of course the depth of which will depend on the amount of emotion you have put into the movie.  How much attention you have given it.

Most people watch the news with almost all of it being of a negative nature.  Violent killings, protests, fighting.  They then tell their friends what they saw too.... And if something big happens, like the death of Gadaffi, they watch the movie of his death, and then post it to facebook so that everyone else can see it.  They comment on it and give so much attention to it.  The Law of Attraction says:  "Oh you like death and violence.... let's give you some more."  Suffering is suffering.. we are all one.  If another suffers, you will also suffer on some level, because we are all connected.  No matter how bad we may think another is... to wish suffering on someone else or to enjoy it... we attract it to ourselves too.

How many people watch programs like WWE?  They enjoy the fighting.   The worst is that they even allow their children to watch it, and have this violence put into their impressionable minds.   They cheer and think it is great, so the child also thinks it is great, and also want to do it.   Having been an educator, I have seen many children trying out these moves on their friends at school, which has often resulted in a broken arm, etc.  Which could very well be a broken neck the next time.  The Law of Attraction says:  "You enjoy fighting... ok, let's bring some into your life."

Do you belong to groups that focus on suffering of a child, a species of animal?  Do you protest against politicians you think are evil, or events and circumstances that you don't like?  Let's take Julius Malema, for instance... Here in South Africa he is hated by many.   Now to begin with, hate is a very, very strong emotion, and strong emotions cause strong energy to be released.   The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like, so whatever strong energy you release out into the Universe, you receive a similar energy back.  One consciousness means that we are all connected in thought.  If many people give thought to a particular subject or person, we create that thing.  In other words, the more attention people give Julius Malema, the stronger he becomes.  We, who have the power to create.... create people like Julius Malema, by focusing our attention on our fears of people like him.  We then give this person we created attention by talking about them, by becoming angry about their actions, and we give our power away, and make them stronger.  By giving your attention to the suffering of animals and children, you are believing that this is the way life is, and thinking in scarcity.  Scarcity of good people who treat animals and children with love and respect.

Mother Teresa said:  "If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other."

"I was once asked why I don't participate in anti-war demonstrations.  I said that I would never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I'll be there."
~ Mother Teresa

Soapies are the also a great way of attracting more drama into your life.   If you focus on problems, even if they are not your own... that is what you will get.

When we watch all this violence and drama, we think that the Universe is an unsafe, violent place, and that people are evil and bad.  That crime is the order of the day.   We attract what we believe.

"I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance.  People inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness and satisfaction.  Yet true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultivation of altruism, of love and compassion, and elimination of ignorance, selfishness and greed."
~ Dalai Lama

If you want a life of peace.... live a life of peace.  Remove all violence and drama from your life.  Watch beautiful inspiring movies, comedies.  Believe that we live in a peaceful, safe Universe, and that people are good and kind.   Join groups that focus on peace and abundance.  Believe that animals and children are loved, respected and in abundance.  That you live in an abundant world with more than enough kindness and love.  Enjoy nature and feel the abundance of peace in every flower, every insect, every tree.  Focus on the best there is and that is what your reality will become.  

"The first peace, which is the most important, is that which comes within the souls of people when they realise their relationship, their Oneness with the Universe and all it's powers, and when they realise that at the centre of the Universe dwells the Great Spirit, and that this centre is really everywhere, it is within each of us."
~ Black Elk

You will attract good, kind and peaceful people into your life.   If you focus on the good in others, and there is always good in everyone, they tend to live up to that responsibility.

By focusing on the good in people, events and circumstances, you are in alignment with your true nature, with God.  You will experience life as God intended, and life will be beautiful and good.  There is no evil, and there are no devils or monsters.... only what you have created with your beliefs.

"Climb the mountains and get their good tidings.  Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees.  The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storm's their energy, while cares will drop away from you like the leaves of autumn."
~ John Muir

This is your world, your reality, you are the creator.... Make it what you wish it to be!

Taking total responsibility for our lives is an enormous task, and means we have to face things we may not want to face, but it is life changing... empowering beyond words... The path to happiness!   Take little steps at a time, and in no time you will be see a difference.  

If you would like to learn more about the Law of Attraction, click on the link below and download and read the book.
http://www.whitedovebooks.co.uk/newsletter/attraction-download-page.

Please email me if you have questions.  I know I had many when I first learnt about the law of attraction, which prompted me to more and more research... and new questions pop up all the time...

Love, light, peace and abundance! ♥ 

P.S.  'As a man thinketh' is very insightful in understanding these concepts:



4 comments:

  1. I need resolution to enjoy what life I have left, and it is vary difficult for me, to intentionally hurt someone's feelings, just to make me feel better, for me. I also need to read things over and over, before things set in, I get in trouble for being honest, I'm not insecure , I'm lonely. And I know it is happening all over.

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  2. Hi there Anonymous
    It hurts anyone to hurt anyone else intentionally, some just don't feel it on what we think of as a conscious level... but subconsciously many things we do bother us. We are all beings of love and we are connected to one another, thus many problems we have, come from this subconscious level of guilt.
    People perceive everything differently... ask ten people to describe a stone and you will get ten different answers. We are not responsible for the feelings of others. They are responsible for their own feelings and the way they choose to perceive anything we say or do. If what you say honestly brings about a good feeling as you say it, you are acting from a state of love... if what you say makes you feel bad then you are acting from the ego... and it is not serving you, but creating guilt consciously or subconsciously.
    When we truly love ourselves... when we let go of the ego and live from love... loving ourselves, our world, and all it's people, creatures and all; we grow to love more and more... When we love ourselves, we have no need for anyone else to fulfill us, make us happy or make us feel complete. We realise that happiness comes from within... from appreciation of all that we are and all that is around us...We are complete and perfect.
    Please read all my other posts, do the exercises and download and read the books, and listen to the audios. Remember that repetition is necessary when perfecting any skill. We have been conditioned for so long to live the way we do that it takes time and true understanding to change that. You will see your life transform before your very eyes.
    I also have a page on facebook that covers many more topics in less detail: www.facebook.com/LIFEMATTERSPERSONALLIFECOACHING
    Love, light and abundance♥

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  3. I agree with staying away from TV programs and news that reflect all bad news and doom and gloom, I am on a path of self help and trying to focus my time on constructive things to do to keep me busy and my mind at peace, I also feel terribly lonely at times but each time that happens I try focus on what I have and the good things about myself.

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    1. My apologies for the late reply, somehow I missed this comment.
      Yes, focusing on the good makes us feel plentiful and abundant. This is appreciation, and it is our greatest thanks to God, our divine creator, higher intelligence... the source of all.
      Loneliness is the wanting of something that we feel we are missing. Wanting creates our suffering. When we delve into the love that surrounds us, and start to see God within everything, especially ourselves, we begin to realise self-love. Self-love is the thing that we are missing, yearning for. It is not in others, but within. It is cultivated by the agreements we have with ourselves. Our beliefs. What we think we are worth. Self-awareness... Begin to focus on the good in yourself... try new things... discover yourself and you discover self-love... acceptance. We are all priceless beings... our lives are about discovering this...
      Blessings,
      Adrienne :)

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